I must add a few things. 1)When they summoned Fletch I stayed in bed reading and HAD to get up to see what was causing all the horrendous squealing. 2) I did agree the beer thing was an alright idea, which led to some funny happenings. When I came to see the guys and all had a beer in their hand, Lina came out laughing and said, "Jaime's drinking, he's gonna get drunk and then he'll start hitting you." I find it pretty disturbing this is just standard here, but we turned it into a joke. I told her, "Nope, Jaime never hits me, and besides, I'm stronger than he is." Everyone roared with laughter at this outrageous statement, which isn't quite true, but we proceeded to show them how I can sling Jaime across my shoulders to haul him home if he were to ever drink too much. Also, this was very funny to them, but not quite the same as him really being dead weight. Our main goal is to show an alternative to their status quo, and amuse them. Nas leaned into Jaime when I set him down and said, "I, for my part, have never hit when I get drunk. I just don't do. I'm not like that." He was limping all day for having fallen down drunk and hurt his leg the day before, but it's good to know he felt he should clear that up, just between him and Jaime. They are their culture, and though it's so strange to us sometimes, they're good people. 3) I did not partake in the fried fat and skin either. We kindly explained to the family that that part of the pig would probably give us k'ulej, literally it means "a lot of stomach", but the standard definition is diarrhea. They laughed, and didn't offer them to us anymore.